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We’ve hung out once since then, but it was more of a short notice invite for me to come hang out at Applebees with her and her friend.
By so doing, you would ignore her needs and the relationship would suffer. Date her because you truly want to, not because you feel that you have to.This would be truly unfortunate because it could have been easily avoided.There is no reason to put yourselves through something so unnecessary.They may truly believe that you are dating them because of a mutual interest in romance and companionship.It is very important that you address your own feelings right now and how you would feel about getting into a relationship with her.I’ve always kept the idea of 3 strikes and you’re out. The reason it’s such a good, classic policy is that it identifies a pattern. You see the warning signs and are considering that before moving forward. But some people may feel like that adds insult to injury.
There has been only two times that were clearly defined as “date like” plans. To everyone else dealing with flakes, I encourage you to take the same steps as the guy who wrote into us. Make defined plans “We should do something this weekend” is not plans. The point is that boundaries should be set, but there are no universally “right” boundaries.
Even if you may be attracted to her, you wouldn’t be able to be a true partner if you were to enter this reluctantly.
She would come to embody the person that stopped you from living the sort of life you wanted.
And when I asked her earlier in the day if we were still on for tonight, she completely played dumb and just said that she forgot about it, even though she was the one to suggest it the night before. Maybe she was is a shitty headspace for whatever reason and may not want to give you a bad impression. But it is also possible that she is stringing you along for the validation, or she’s just not as into you as you are into her (though that’s no excuse to flake), or maybe she’s a shitty person who is disrespectful of your time. And there are red flags here, so I can see why you’d be worried. If they flake more times than they keep plans, that to me is not acceptable. If someone stands me up, meaning that I’m at the place waiting with no word from said person, there is no second chance in my book. (Perhaps in the writer’s case.you really forget that you made plans less than 24 hours later?
I have been getting very frustrated lately because every time we have something that is even remotely close to “plans” together she just bails. I want to assure you that you seem to be doing everything right. You seem to differentiate between “defined” plans and vague plans. Have a defined “policy” on flaking Before you encounter any more of these situations, figure out what you will and will not stand for. ) I am usually a little more lenient on this if it is not a direct lie.
There have been a few instances where we were supposed to hang out with groups of people since that date, but every time, plans change at the last minute, or something comes up on her end.