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It is when the couple will plant orchards whose fruit they themselves will not enjoy—while tasting the fruit that has been made available to them by their parents and grandparents.
So, if you are a Westerner, hoping to know a Filipina woman, you should first understand her nature.White women are mostly loud and liberated, so finding traditional and sober women in the Philippines is a breath of fresh air to the Whites.Girls from the Philippines are highly-regarded due to their being conservative and submissive in marriage.They need not rely upon the ministrations of a secular and soul-withering state.They themselves make a society within the larger society.Filipinas are timid and shy but they are great at what they do.
They can cook, clean the house, do the laundry, look after their younger siblings and study at the same time.
It is irresponsible in us, then, to let our youth muddle and meander; to suppose that marriage will eventually “happen.” For my whole life, the ecclesially minded have asked, “What can we do to keep our youth in the Church?
” And their attempts haven’t worked, because they have viewed young people as consumers of a churchly product, rather than as boys and girls, young men and young women, with obvious natures and needs.
The majority of the Filipinos are Catholic and their religious practices have taught the women to be conservative, faithful, loving and adoring to their husband.
They are also taught how important it is to remain pure on her wedding day. In fact, unlike the Western countries, there is no divorce in the Philippines.
Just as boys after fifteen years of being hustled from institutional pillar to institutional post no longer know how to make up their own games outdoors, just as girls after fifteen years of the same no longer know how to organize a dance or a social, so now our young people not only refrain from dating and courting—they do not know how to do it. In 1960—back when Wally Cleaver was wearing a jacket and tie to join other boys and girls at a party, for playing records and eating ice cream and dancing—in that already souring time, almost three out of four Americans aged 24 were married (72%). We are not talking about people who are dating during all those years; they aren’t. Second, it delays, perhaps derails for good, the time when young people will set down roots and integrate themselves into the great passage of the generations.